You Mad, Bro?

"Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”

Proverbs 22:24-25

As “little Christs,” we are called to love others, but love does not mean allowing toxic influences to shape our lives. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns us about the dangers of close association with people who are ruled by anger. Their temper can become a snare, pulling us into patterns of frustration, bitterness, or even sin. That is why setting healthy boundaries is not just wise—it’s biblical.

Jesus Himself demonstrated boundaries. While He showed compassion to all, He did not allow others’ emotions or actions to dictate His behavior. He spoke truth, walked away when necessary, and maintained His focus on His mission. Likewise, we must discern when someone’s anger is becoming destructive and establish limits that protect our peace and spiritual well-being.

Setting boundaries doesn’t mean shutting people out completely, but it does mean recognizing when their influence is harmful. If someone’s anger constantly brings chaos into your life, it’s okay to take a step back. You can pray for them, love them from a distance, and seek wisdom in how to interact with them without compromising your own peace.

God calls us to be peacemakers, but peace isn’t the absence of conflict—it’s the presence of His wisdom. By setting boundaries, we guard our hearts and ensure that we are influenced by His truth rather than the turmoil of others.

Reflection: Are there relationships in your life where setting boundaries could help you walk in greater peace and wisdom? Ask God for guidance in handling those situations with grace.

Taylor Newton